When a relationship doesn't work, we tend to blame ourselves and think we'll never be happy again -- and a mourning period is required. But if we stop and do a post mortem on the relationship, we generally find one of three things:
* We just weren't suited for each other temperamentally. * There was a lack of commitment on one or the other's part. * We had a great relationship, but it was time to move on when one outgrew the other.